Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Day 107 - Freedom in Relationships

Thoughts on Michael Wells’ teachings in My Weakness for His Strength - # 185
         
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“in bondage to others”…what a horrific thought, what a pitiful situation to have in life.  How can that be?  Michael gives us the reason many Believers are living this kind of life.  Take heed…(there is SO much TRUTH in this days’ writing!).



DAY 107

Freedom in Relationships

Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve. –Colossians 3:23, 24

Many have yet to know the freedom that Christ gives every believer. Many are still in bondage to others. I have mentioned this often, but it bears repeating. When another person's words and behavior can change our words and behavior, we cannot be Spirit-controlled, but we are other-controlled. A significant element of freedom is the abandonment of the control of others, for nothing brings as much internal conflict as being controlled by the behavior of others. Several Chinese Christians imprisoned for their faith were fed very little, had sparse quarters, and had been locked up unjustly. Yet the thing that vexed them the most was the attitude of the guards and their selfish cellmates! They were in bondage to others, a much worse state than bondage to circumstance, quality of living, or will. Christians suffer from bondage to the behavior of others, when we must learn the joy that comes from being free! When the Chinese group learned to love the guards and cellmates, expecting nothing in return, they experienced true freedom behind their bars.

Why do the actions of others affect us so? Why do our mate's attitude, teenager's mood swings, boss's jab, parent's control, neighbor's selfishness, and elected official's peccadilloes bother us so? What is the root? The source is our pride that places us on a throne, connives to have us be worshipped, builds us a reputation, exalts us above others, finds our identity in surroundings and possessions, wants us unique among the herd, brings us to believe in our superiority, and leaves us in bondage to all those who would not support its lofty goal of giving us ascendancy. However, Jesus came as a servant, not in pride, and His servanthood kept Him free. When pride rules, we are slaves to all that would hinder its success. When servanthood rules, we are free to love, forgive, turn the other cheek, and bless those who curse, for who could hinder such goals? Our desire must be freedom from pride and, therefore, freedom from the behavior of others.


Yellow – VIP, Very Important Point      Green – IT, Incredible Truth        
Red – GP, Greatest Promises
Turquoise – UR, Unfathomable Riches           Pink – PV, Priceless Victory



Ok, let’s analyze and summarize:
·         many believers don’t have the freedom Christ gives
·         many are other-controlled instead of Spirit-controlled
   (notice this is from “when another person’s words and behavior can change our
     words and behavior”)
·         nothing brings as much internal conflict as being controlled by others’ behavior
·         bondage to others is worse than bondage to circumstance, quality of living, or will
·         we must learn the joy that comes from being free
·         the root of this bondage?  OUR PRIDE
·         take heed!  freedom comes from BEING A SERVANT
·         we must desire freedom

Way back in 1984 I heard a pastor use this riddle in one of his sermons:
     “Roses are red, violets are blue.
      My disposition depends on you. …and when it does, I am in trouble.”
What truth.

The Apostle Paul gave us the “secret”: Whatever you do, do your work heartily, as for the Lord rather than for men,…It is the Lord Christ whom you serve.  Michael gives us the lesson.  The question that begs an answer is this: Is this a CHOICE we can make, or that we make?  This same Paul tells us in Romans ch. 6 that we “choose” to whom we yield our members to obey.  In v.17 Paul says we have “obeyed from the heart” (Greek: hupakouo), meaning we choose to obey Christ.  We choose whether to be in bondage or not!  That is what Michael tells us…”Our desire (which leads to choosing) must be freedom from pride…”  (Michael has 6 “days” in a row in MWfHS where he explores “choosing.”  Let me once again encourage you to contact ALMI and get one of Michael’s books!)

WHY do we not “see” that this bondage is our choice?  Is pride that “blinding”?  Yes, but (a HOLY “but”)…we should know that we are to guard against “pride” at all costs.  Michael lists some of those costs: “forgive, turn the other cheek, and bless those that curse.”  And God always gives us the choice to have pride, or have humility.

You might be asking why I use the words “take heed” twice…
The Greek for “take heed” is either blepo (direct the mind upon, beware of) or prosecho (pay attention).  35 times in the NT!  Used as that blunt directive to grab our attention or awareness…either “to do” or “not to do.”  All throughout Michael’s writing I seemed to hear God telling me “pay attention…get this”!  Well, amen.




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